Things i've learned

Life isn't fair. It never has been and it never will be. Sometimes we have to let things fall apart in order for better things to fall together. It sucks but eventually things work out. One of my favorite sayings is "Everything is okay in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end" These are the words i try to live by. I recently broke up with the guy that i could honestly see myself spending forever with. Which brings me to my next quote "Don't make someone your everything because when they've gone you'll have nothing" This quote is so true! After we broke up I went to a bachelorette party and that helped me forget for a while... when i got home it just hit me so hard. I went in and layed next to my mom and she gave me a hug and I just lost it... I started talking to her about everything.. It felt so good! I think i laid there and cried for about 45 minutes and the best part was, she just listened and didn't tell me i was wrong or anything... she gave me her point of view but she didn't shove it down my throat like most parents do. That was when I realized that she isn't just my mom, she's my best friend. She's the one person who, No matter what I do, no matter how bad i screw up, she's there with a hug. I recently had a friend who ended up getting pregnant. I talked to my mom about it and she told me if i was ever in that situation, no matter how bad it would hurt her, she would hope that i would go to her before anyone else. And she promises to love and be there for me no matter what. I love having heart to heart with my mom! She is the nicest lady you'll ever meet..